Why is he like that? Hi so I've been dating this guy on and off we are not in a committed relationship however we keep in touch for the most part, he has expressed interest in marriage but I'm not ready and I don't feel like I've known him long enough. Anyway we both travel but in this case he left first and brought me nice gift (I guess he was studying me because it was perfect, points!!) so when I traveled I got him something i thought he might have liked. So here's the problem, I told him about it three time and he didn't collect it. I said ok then... then his birthday came around and I re purposed the gift, called and told him i had a birthday gift, he seemed excited at first but that was Oct 1 its November 5 and nothing. What am I not getting?
Jamaican Christian Female
Pastor Troy replies,
Good day to you, he lacks interest in you. I suggest to give him space and allow him to pursue or call. If his interest resumes or heightens then reestablish your expectations going forward. Remind him that while you are not fully ready for marriage, please let him know that learning, or getting to know each other is important. But if he doesn't reach out to you when you give him space, please move on. Blessings to you..
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